Am I too late to transmax, disabled at 31?

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Hello

I'm from the UK.

I'm (mentally) disabled and I never worked in my life (I lived off the state). I never had a girlfriend, and I never get along with with cisgirls. I do not even have friends in real life.

My ambition of achieving my goals in life has gone out of the window because of my age and lack of qualifications from schools (I did not do GCSE's because I come from special needs school) and college (useless workskills stuff). I tried applying for jobs in the past and got nowhere, especially with the help of a charity.

My physical appearance: I'm overweight, suffering hair loss and my hair is starting to go grey. I'm also developing physical health issues along the way.

I know loads of stuff about transgender and transitioning, especially in the UK which is hard to do because the corrupt tories and labour (also red tories) refuse to support 'self ID' and trans rights in which other countries already support trans rights.

Transitioning through the NHS is literally hell because of the long waiting lists, and I can't afford to go private!

I also hate living in the UK for many reasons that I classify myself as an involuntary 'citizen'! That's why I can't watch or read the news, especially UK related.

As I briefly explained about my situation, am I too late to transition? I don't want to be some piece of ugly transvestite because of my current physical appearance.

If I'm too late, I just hope my health problems kill me off because I don't want to do suicide! And I hate hospitals, they are simply no different to jail (thankfully I never been arrested)! I don't see any purpose of existing in this planet because I know how screwed up it has become!
 

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I have said this before and it's probably worth saying again.

Most people cannot even pass without surgery past age 20 it seems.

But sometimes late transitioners can still pass with facial feminization surgery.

One option for gaining access to HRT is via some online store such as https://vannapharma.com/

It's typically easier if you are also willing to go with pills, injections does seem like the superior option though (at least long-term). Typically people in our community are able to gain access to estradiol enanthate injections if they want that.
 
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I have said this before and it's probably worth saying again.

Most people cannot even pass without surgery past age 20 it seems.

But sometimes late transitioners can still pass with facial feminization surgery.

One option for gaining access to HRT is via some online store such as https://vannapharma.com/

It's typically easier if you are also willing to go with pills, injections does seem like the superior option though (at least long-term). Typically people in our community are able to gain access to estradiol enanthate injections if they want that.
Thank you very much for getting back to me.

I've done loads of research on transitioning, ranging from watching videos on YouTube and reading up on websites such as DIY HRT and Gender Kit.

Here's one YouTuber from the UK who is around my age that is transitioning.


Unfortunately, I'm unable to use Discord because I have hard of hearing, but I can lip read and watch YouTube videos with subtitles.

As for HRT, I'm currently undergoing physical and internal health issues, I did have a blood test and it wasn't transgender related. I'm too hesitant to my GP about the transgender transitioning, also I don't want to let my family know about it because they are anti-LGBT. Also, I researched that transitioning by taking HRT will make my health conditions much worse.

As for going private, I'm on limited income as I get benefits by the government. As for jobs, I tried everything to get a job and it has been unsuccessful, I'm not capable for a supermarket or McDonald's type of job, due to my disability I can't work which involves talking to customers, etc. I'm aware of the Equality Act 2010 law which requires companies to make reasonable adjustments for the disabled people.

As I'm getting older and uglier, it will make it more expensive for me to transition such as facial feminisation surgery, hair implants, liposuction etc.

Transmaxxing to female is my last option in trying to change my life around. I'm sorry for making this too complicated.
 
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Unfortunately, I'm unable to use Discord because I have hard of hearing, but I can lip read and watch YouTube videos with subtitles.
Most discord servers including https://transmaxxing.com are mostly people communicating via text so you should still be able to use discord.

Also, I researched that transitioning by taking HRT will make my health conditions much worse.
Auto-immune problems?

As I'm getting older and uglier, it will make it more expensive for me to transition such as facial feminisation surgery, hair implants, liposuction etc.

Transmaxxing to female is my last option in trying to change my life around. I'm sorry for making this too complicated.
I have seen a lot of people in similar difficult situations. Sometimes it works ok anyway, sometimes it kinda doesn't.
 
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