Are you sure that the manosphere’s definition of “hypergamy” is correct?

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women value men with high earning capacity because women's own ability to earn is constrained by their disadvantaged status in a male-dominated society. They argue that as societies shift towards becoming more gender-equal, women's mate selection preferences will shift as well.
This is from the Wikipedia source: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy

Eighty-five percent of the women indicated that "As my status increases, my pool of acceptable partners decreases." In contrast, 90 percent of men felt that "As my status increases, my pool of acceptable partners increases
I am not a social scientist, I first met the hypergamy definition on a Freud’s book on crowds. There he compared the social systems of indigenous populations. Hypergamy there was contextualized and occurred in a chaste system.

In the manosphere, generally people are not talking about castes and social classes, they usually refer to attractiveness, which is a completely different approach. But somehow the manosphere now believes that hypergamy is about women being attracted to Chads.

My question is: If incels are right and it is true that women select their marriage partners basing their choices primarily on physical attractiveness, then how can they be considered “hypergamous” at all?

Ideally, hypergamy is what is most beneficial to incels, since they just can acquire resources and trade them to get a female. But western societies are not as hypergamous as the societies studied by Freud, not even remotely as hypergamous.
 
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Hypergamy is the perceived tendency of females to date, have sex with, and/or marry males of a higher socioeconomic status than them, although it can also refer to a higher "Sexual Market Value". [4] This is also commonly called "gold-digging" in more overtly low-brow and less pseudo-intellectual parlance. According to many in the manosphere, hypergamy is instinctual, and it is *A Bad Thing*, responsible for inceldomamong so many suffering low-status men.

It's worth noting that "hypergamy" is an actual scientific term, used in sociology to classify relationships where the Male or female member of the relationship is of higher status (pertaining to a relevant variable, like formal education or income). Of course, even a cursory examination of studies using the term reveals that such relationships are not particularly common, let alone inevitable as maintained by MRAs.

In contrast to what many members of the manosphere believe (especially MGTOW's), the rate of hypergamy in females has decreased significantly in the developed world (McVeigh 2012). This may be because of greater economic gender equality and because female hypogamy (dating males of lower social status) is less stigmatised.
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Manosphere_glossary

You can compare the various definitions in the manosphere, there are many.

Somehow, incels believe that hypergamy is when a human female want to fuck Chads.
 

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