The real causes of male "loneliness" and sexlessness

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I have noticed that a lot of people bringing up "male loneliness" are for one not even understanding what the problem is and they also don't want to see how it's a result of our modern society.

First off males do have the ability to make male friends but most males want to have a female to live with to have a family. Males specifically want female companionship.

Males have to constantly compete against other males for females and while this can still allow male friendship males are also prone to turning against each other. A lot of males end up being very hurt by other males they thought were friends.

But even if a male is able to form some male friendship that still does not eliminate their desire for a female.

 

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Why males struggle to get female companionship
For every 100 females there are around 107 males being born. That naturally result in a male surplus when there is not enough wars or other forms of male on male deadly violence.

Furthermore a lot of females opt against living with a male in the first place thanks to our modern societies allowing that. Females do not generally desire males in the same way males desire females.

 

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Anti-sex policies
Politicians often oppose ways that would provide males with a legal way to at least get recreational sex by paying for it.

There is also age of consent laws which restricts the ability for males to legally have sex since it reduces the number of legal dating options for them (resulting in law abiding males having additional difficulties while males willing to break laws have it easier instead).

Religious views such as "no sex before marriage" also make it harder since getting married comes with a lot of future consequences and you also probably shouldn't marry someone if you don't know if the sex-aspect actually works. This can however be a way for some females to take advantage of males when marriage is very advantageous for the female (then when he finally marries her there is still no sex and then he loses like 50% in addition to alimony, etc).

There is obviously a mismatch in the sense that males want sex a lot more than the females so males will end up having less sex than they want or females will be forced to have sex when they don't want to. When one sex/gender has more power it will shift more towards what they want so the more rights and power females get the less sex males will get to enjoy.

 

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The transmaxxing option
Males transitioning to female will balance out the situation to some extent but males are not going to voluntarily transition at anywhere near the rates requires to achieve balance.

And a lot of males also want to have a family and for that transitioning isn't going to be helpful particularly often unfortunately.

Transmaxxing will mainly be attractive for males who also have severe gender dysphoria or AGP. Even hopeless incels tend to insist on remaining as males and they often overestimate their chances of attracting a female partner as a male.

Example of successful transmaxxing to have a child is the chris chan case.