There's this chick who seems to be egging me on to share her nudes

[Leucosticte]

But I'm not gonna take the bait, because I think she just wants to provoke me to start some drama as a change of pace from her mostly boring life, and I don't really need the distraction rn. Anyway, back to the French lessons. Later, I'll set up another server and we'll maybe get a Francel site off the ground, although it's going to be on a cucked server (since that seems to be the only way to get decent service; the free speech webhosts either cuck out ultimately or suffer tech difficulties or just don't respond to support tickets, so that your site goes down for the count as soon as you have an issue), so probably we'll keep everything available only to logged-in users and require approval of new accounts.

 

[Admin]

If you do leak her nudes you will just make yourself a villain and she will become a victim, there is no benefit in you here.

Maybe in the past this would have been bad for her but now it doesn't really matter, you can do porn and later just have a normal career without difficulties, people are growing up with porn these days so it is being more and more normalized.

You do need to put effort into cencoring your own platforms, you can write more freely if you are not the one who will be shut down.

 

[Leucosticte]

If you do leak her nudes you will just make yourself a villain and she will become a victim, there is no benefit in you here.

Maybe in the past this would have been bad for her but now it doesn't really matter, you can do porn and later just have a normal career without difficulties, people are growing up with porn these days so it is being more and more normalized.

You do need to put effort into cencoring your own platforms, you can write more freely if you are not the one who will be shut down.

Well you know how they are; they say a bunch of inflammatory stuff, and then, "...And by the way, don't you DARE share my nudes; that would be the worst thing ever."

Like I was gonna do that anyway; the only reason I did that in the past, was that the previous chick was basically a nudist/exhibitionist who didn't mind having her nudes out there. She was a prostitute and plied her trade by letting potential clients see the merchandise, and she didn't intend to ever try to work outside the sex industry, plus she liked to rub in her evangelical Christian adoptive dad's face that she was a prostitute, so worries about her reputation were pretty much a non-issue for her.

 

[Leucosticte]

Maybe in the past this would have been bad for her but now it doesn't really matter, you can do porn and later just have a normal career without difficulties, people are growing up with porn these days so it is being more and more normalized..

It's also an ego thing; if some guy would share your nudes, it must be because he's enraged he can't have you or something and wants to strike back at you. Yet in the modern world, the only way men can do that is via revenge porn, and like you say, women are considered the victim in that case; their giving a guy their nudes is considered normal behavior, and if people question why they shared with a particular guy, they can always say they were catfished or something, or that he got hold of the nudes indirectly (they were being shared around or whatever and he ended up with them without her having intended for that to happen).

Anyway, chicks want to feel like they're important enough to a guy that he wouldn't let them go without a fight, or at least some attempt at retribution. And they want to feel like the guy would be proud enough of having had some IRL or online intimacy with them that he'd want to show off her body to the world.

 

[Leucosticte]

Anyway, even if I doxxed her, she could just get it removed from Google using this form, with these radio buttons, https://support.google.com/websearch/answer/6302812?hl=en

• A nude or sexually explicit picture or video of myself
• I want to report content that is abusive of minors
• A fake nude or sexually explicit picture or video of myself
• A pornographic site that contains a full name or business name

Ideally what you want to do is tick all the boxes by creating a composite image or video of the victim and the underage Kylie Freeman (thus both abusing minors and creating a fake nude).

Oh, btw, they also let you remove doxxing and stuff that could be used for identity thievery:

• Contact information, like address, phone number, or email address, that has been shared in a malicious or harassing way (also called "doxxing")
• A government-issued ID number
• A bank account or credit card number
• An image of my handwritten signature
• A confidential, personal, medical document

Yeah, Google has these chicks covered. If you doxx them, the only result is that now they're going to have a cool story about how their psycho ex tried to blah blah blah and they had to get Google's help to get it removed.

I thought about just saying, "Give me $500 or I won't take your nudes down," though, just so I could tick the other box, "Content about me on sites with exploitative removal practices".

Dang, since I'm not going to do any of that, that just makes me so ... forgettable, because there aren't even any cool anecdotes to recount. But y'know, I'm a pretty civilized guy who doesn't want to transgress any societal norms, so I guess that's just the price I pay.

Oh, I guess the story could be, "He threatened to share my nudes but then I threatened him with blah blah blah and he backed down" and that would sound slightly cool as a war story of dealing with crazy, abusive, controlling guys, but actually it would do more to just make me look weak and pathetic. I guess at this point I just have to post them, huh, or else I lose face.

I really don't want to, but it's like I'm backed into a corner and have no other path of escape now that it's escalated to this level.