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And really this is also a problem with larger society. Men can't really handle seeing other men getting more or better chicks. It drives them nuts. This is part of why we have these age of consent laws, probably -- men just can't handle seeing other men getting with a hotter and younger chick than the aging, crusty old fat chick they're stuck with.
I'm not even totally exempt from the phenomenon of sexual envy, inasmuch as, when I was a teenage virgin, I had a hard time handling situations where my guitarist/football player buddy would tell me about how he banged some hot chicks, or when we'd be hanging out sometimes when his girlfriend was around and they'd be getting kinda affectionate or whatever in the way they talked to each other. Mainly, though, my resentment toward him because of the latter was just because I felt like a third wheel (since he'd imposed her presence on me without telling me beforehand; it was a dorm room situation where he moved her in without saying anything first), not so much because of envy; the envy made me feel more depressed than angry.
Anyway, there's no way to really organize incels as any kind of brotherhood if chicks are around, because as soon as a chick is around, men try to fight over their position in the hierarchy of who's going to get affection from her, and they hate the men who are more successful. It's kinda retarded, but it's how they are. You see people's true nature in that kind of situation. At least Vintologi admits, we compete with other men for women rather than having solidarity with other men to keep women down. Maybe someday women will be abundant enough, like air or water, that we don't need to fight over them as much, but for now, it's pretty much nature red in tooth and claw, even if there's a superficial veneer of civilization where people a lot of times use their words rather than fists in combat over chicks (although there's also an element of brutality, in that the hottest young chicks continue to go for obnoxious brutes over supreme gentlemen).
The way it is now, though, is that men have an attitude of, "If I can't have her, no one can," and they try to cockblock if they see another man starting to get ahead of them. If they can't block him directly by getting the chick to not like that dude, they'll attack him indirectly by just trying to demoralize him, cut off their friendship with him, badmouth him to mutual friends in the social circle, or say bitter or disparaging stuff to mindfuck him into giving up trying to get with her, or whatever. They'll try to punish him in one way or another for being more successful.
Basically people want you to be incel, or at the very least, they want you to not succeed in any way in which they themselves are not successful, when it comes to chicks. And of course it's the same way with chicks; chicks also are not rooting for you to get with any chick who's prettier than themselves, for instance. They HATE chicks who are prettier than them and attract more male attention, especially from guys they like.
I'm not even totally exempt from the phenomenon of sexual envy, inasmuch as, when I was a teenage virgin, I had a hard time handling situations where my guitarist/football player buddy would tell me about how he banged some hot chicks, or when we'd be hanging out sometimes when his girlfriend was around and they'd be getting kinda affectionate or whatever in the way they talked to each other. Mainly, though, my resentment toward him because of the latter was just because I felt like a third wheel (since he'd imposed her presence on me without telling me beforehand; it was a dorm room situation where he moved her in without saying anything first), not so much because of envy; the envy made me feel more depressed than angry.
Anyway, there's no way to really organize incels as any kind of brotherhood if chicks are around, because as soon as a chick is around, men try to fight over their position in the hierarchy of who's going to get affection from her, and they hate the men who are more successful. It's kinda retarded, but it's how they are. You see people's true nature in that kind of situation. At least Vintologi admits, we compete with other men for women rather than having solidarity with other men to keep women down. Maybe someday women will be abundant enough, like air or water, that we don't need to fight over them as much, but for now, it's pretty much nature red in tooth and claw, even if there's a superficial veneer of civilization where people a lot of times use their words rather than fists in combat over chicks (although there's also an element of brutality, in that the hottest young chicks continue to go for obnoxious brutes over supreme gentlemen).
The way it is now, though, is that men have an attitude of, "If I can't have her, no one can," and they try to cockblock if they see another man starting to get ahead of them. If they can't block him directly by getting the chick to not like that dude, they'll attack him indirectly by just trying to demoralize him, cut off their friendship with him, badmouth him to mutual friends in the social circle, or say bitter or disparaging stuff to mindfuck him into giving up trying to get with her, or whatever. They'll try to punish him in one way or another for being more successful.
Basically people want you to be incel, or at the very least, they want you to not succeed in any way in which they themselves are not successful, when it comes to chicks. And of course it's the same way with chicks; chicks also are not rooting for you to get with any chick who's prettier than themselves, for instance. They HATE chicks who are prettier than them and attract more male attention, especially from guys they like.
