What makes a girl an attention whore?

[Leucosticte]

There was girl who posted stuff to her Twitter saying she was an incelosexual and used to hang out on incel sites. People said she was an attention whore because she got a lot of positive attention. I just think she had a pleasant personality that made it easy to be fond of her, so that was why she collected a lot of admirers, friends, etc.

But at any rate, if a girl is attractive and has an online profile, and make posts, does that automatically make her an attention whore, just because she attracts a lot of male attention? She wasn't even posting her pics or anything. And she would hang out on sites that only had a handful of users anyway. But, people said she was an attention whore.

How is a girl even supposed to find a mate in 2019, when most of them don't have a dad who's going to find a mate for them, or belong to a church where they'd find someone, given how irreligious people are these days? She would have to go on the Internet to find someone, but if she went to a dating site people would just call her a regular whore; so instead if she goes to some community where she feels more comfortable like the incelosphere, where maybe she doesn't feel so intimidated by Chads (since there supposedly aren't any there), then she gets called an attention whore.

 

[adolf512]

I think most people like attention, it's just easier to get as a female.

I remember chatting with a bisexual female that claimed she often went for virgins, she was really unattractive but i chatter with her anyway becuase she had some interesting things to say.

 

[upyr]

But at any rate, if a girl is attractive and has an online profile, and make posts, does that automatically make her an attention whore, just because she attracts a lot of male attention?

I would only call people attention whores when most of what they post is low-effort things that have no value other than attracting attention. Example: Nude selfies. ASMR artists that put dedication in their work are not attention whores by this concept because the work has artistic value. There are male attention whores too. Most of the popular youtubers are.